Am I losing my mind over this guy or what? I am hurting in many ways. I am hurt and off work due to an injury and he complains due to me being the sole provider and no income right now I may have to have surgery but he calls me stupid, says he hopes he is intimidating to me says I am worthless. I am unable to do much but I still try to fix everything to try and make him happy. I have lost who I am all these years with him and I have lost my self esteem .he goes to school all day with all females and takes photos of them and says what he does in school or at his lunch hour is none of my business. I thought when you are married you share everything. Maybe he is right I am stupid to think you can have such a wonderful marriage.