My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 years now. I am 21 and she is 20. We’ve been doing pretty well with the exception of a few little fights here and there. In the past we took a break for a little while because she said she needed to find herself. We started talking again and since then things have been fine. Recently all her friends came home from school, 2 of which are newly single from long term relationships. She started to hang out with them and went out with them 2 days ago and since then was very distant with me. She wouldn’t want to hang out and would barely talk to me while we were at work (we would text all day and talk on the phone during her breaks). Today while we were at work she called to talk and explained that she loves me but not in love with me. She said we’ve tried too many times to fix things and the spark we used to have isn’t there anymore. I agree to an extent that the spark is gone….but she had not shown any signs of being unhappy. It was all a shock and asked if we just didn’t speak for a while. If I had known about how she was feeling I would’ve done anything in the world to show her we can still have fun and that there still is a spark…but she won’t give me another chance. She claims its nothing I did its just that we drifted apart. We still had so much fun while hanging out, laughing all the time… I just dont know what to think or do at this point. She was the love of my life and I just want one shot to show her that what we used to have is how we can feel again.
