Hi Sis Dolly, I’m 24 years of age, inlove with a 42 year old man. We met in 2010 and our “relationship” has been on and off ever since. I do not know where I stand with this man, he seems to do and say all the right things all the time but never gets to a point that puts my mind as ease. I have read alot regarding signs on when a guy only wants you only for sex and none of the things that I read are applicable to him. I am so inlove with this man that I am prepared to give him a child and get married to him but I don’t want to scare him away by bringing up the topic. He has no problem coming to places where my family is around, my mom adores him, he has no problem inviting me and introducing me friends and family or being with me in public but I somehow get the feeling that he is really not serious with me and knows just how to play the game. Do I let go or do I fight for him because I really do not want to lose him Sincerely Confused from Namibia