Hi cc Dolly I need help am in a complicated relationship. I have been dating this guy for five months now he is 27 years and am 26 years when we started dating he told me that he had a kid with his girl friend. He told me everything about their problems and the situation that they were living together but not anymore he told me that he has moved on but the mother of the kid doesn’t want to accept that he has moved on. So we started dating then after the kid mother heard that he has moved on she came claiming that she is pregnant and wants to work things out he told me everything but he didn’t tell me about the pregnancy so they were living together while we were still dating I found out that he has a second child with the mother of his first born. When I confronted him about it he said that he didn’t want to lose me and what we have so that’s y he lied to me when I count the months she gave birth in by that time we were not dating by the time she got pregnant . So the problem is he paid lobola for the mother of her kids a long time ago so the problem I have is that the mother of the kids is at Zimbabwe now living with her in laws they a both from Zimbabwe. So tomorrow he is going home and I have this fear of what if the family make them to sort out their problems and continue with the relationship. Where does that live me? . When I ask him if he still loves her he says he doesn’t love the mother of his kids what should I do cc Dolly? Should I walk away or stay in this complicated relationship?.
