Ok, I am a 20 year old male here, my girlfreind is 20 years old, she wants to have sex without condoms because she is on the pill, I understand that that form of contraceptive is great at preventing pregnancy but I know it does not stop STDs. My concern is that she has a pretty colorful sex background and she might not know she has something… How do i bring something like that up? I really more concerned with diseases like AIDS because the others can be treated alot easier.
On a sidenote and more importantly ive already had sex with her and so i may already be up a creak but i still would like to know.
How do i ask my girlfriend if she has an STDS?