Hellow sis Dolly am a young person who is in a complicated relationship. Am a 26 years a girl nd my boy friend is 27 he is from zimbabwe we have been dating for five months. Last year I found out dat he has two kids I only knew about the first kid the second kid he lied about it when I found out about it I asked him he said dat he did it to protect our relationship nd by the time when the gf gave birth when I count the months we were not together by that time. They were also not living together he says that their relationship has always had some problems so he decided to move on with his life but the girl friend doesn’t want to move on so when the girl friend found out that he boy friend has someone new in his life she came back nd told him that she is pregnant. Then she forced her way back to live with him I understand the whole situation but now its a bit difficult for me because he paid lobola for this girl friend a long time a go and now the mother of his kids is at Zimbabwe they a both from Zimbabwe . So now am confused what to do because the kids mother is staying with her in laws and the kids so he is going home tomorrow I don’t know what I should do when I ask him if he still loves the mother of his kids he says he doesn’t love her anymore but its difficult for me to believe him and I think maybe the family might make sure that they sort out their problems so what would I do we love each other very much but I can’t stop thinking about he is going home and I don’t know what will happen there . So I don’t know if I should walk away or stay in this relationship please help me sis Dolly.
